Recently one woman did something pretty cool, whilst another woman didn’t. And what we can all learn from this living diagram, this organic spectrum, is that integrity, honesty and belief in oneself trumps manipulation, allegations and maybe-not-being-quite-as-truthful-as-you-could-have-been every time. (I cry evvertim).
As a white male author I obviously have a series of opinions always perfect and never up for discussion, and those impeccable views on the world need to be spread without adding to any debate currently active in mainstream media. With my elevated position above the masses as god entity with a quill, I feel it is my duty – nay, my rudeness – to leap into a field of ideology that I don’t really give two shits about.
When I was growing up I was very naïve, mostly because I was a child that was scared of Stopit and Tidyup, and not really ready to deal with expansive arguments involving egalitarian studies. But my Mother had faith in me, and knowing that I was too busy watching Pokémon to really have a deep, intense conversation about the pitfalls of a heteronormative society, decided to teach me a valuable lesson I try to hold to this day. I fail, now, sorry Mum, but I like to think the lesson still pushes me in all the right directions. And it was a simple phrase: “Be nice.”
My Mum taught me that if someone falls over, help them up. If someone cries, ask them why, and get them icecream. If someone has lost their pen, help them find it. This seemed a simple lesson, and one my younger, innocent self could get behind. And so I did these things, bar buying people icecream, I didn’t get tonnes of pocket money, what do you take me for!
As I grew up I realised, slowly, too slowly, that the lesson my Mum had taught me was a lesson that most other chimpanzees had skipped. It appeared the average lesson was “everyone is going to hate you, hate them first before it’s too late, quick, steal that kid’s icecream.” It wasn’t to say that teenagers, adolescents and now adults are selfish horrible pricks, but it seemed the majority of people had a streak of selfishness I had yet to develop within myself (and everyone else was a selfish horrible prick). Naturally, I was drawn more to people like myself, and ragtag bands of people who actually gave a damn about other people began to form. We call these, friends. The likeminded hoarde that you can dip into every now and again so you don’t feel so crushingly alone in this existential battleground we call reality.
Then the world changed. Something wonderful happened. One day a man went into an office, told Sandra she should wear that dress more often, winked, walked into his office of 20 middle-aged white guys, and told everyone that their next game should be about a rugged, broad-shouldered man with maybe-a-beard, killing things. He was pronounced a genius, given a Nobel Prize and offered all the chocolate in the world. Naturally, this was not the wonderful thing; the wonderful thing was Sandra throwing this man out of a metaphoric window, and the resulting Rorschach ink blot of blood that came from him spelling out the words “maybe this is dumb.”
Slowly but surely, our civilisation has awoken to quite a few new concepts. Black people don’t always have guns. Women aren’t just tits on a stick. And the Japanese aren’t always super weird. With these new thoughts in our head, civilisation moved into a new era. Sadly, not the one we intended. We thought we would move into an era of media that depicted a range of people, and could tell stories initially regarded as unprofitable. What we actually made was an era of movies being ironic, and angry forums.
And, to be honest, I think the problem lies in a lot of hands. Tumblr, here, blames me. The white man. The one who stole Pocahontas’ land and made a good musical out of it. I’ve already read articles saying that Janelle Monáe is a grander force in science fiction that Isaac Asimov was, and that me going outside means I am a rapist. The next pair of hands holding up this cacophony of misplaced ideas, are some of the feminists themselves, who proclaim that dying their hair purple and shoving a Nintendo controller up their arse places them at the pinnacle of human evolution. It’s also police officers shooting unarmed men in America, dictatorial regimes, 13-year-olds with a sense of self-entitlement offered a platform to say whatever they like, and the re-emergence of B-Movie culture.
But… I can sit here, very easily – sitting is comfortable – and tell you all how everyone above is wrong. How dare the Nintendo purple white man 13-year old American black police officer tell me what to do? But this phrase, though hilarious, is irrelevant. The problem is that certain individuals are placing the idea of an idea before the idea itself. To put this in a pseudo-romantic sense, its like falling in love with the idea of love, rather than that guy who makes the best cocktails in your city. It’s like falling in love with the idea of who someone might become, rather than the twat in your bed already. Feminism, egalitarianism, gaming culture, journalism… name an –ist or –ism and I can say that a group of fools are better at choosing a good font for that word for a poster, than actually following the doctrines of that belief itself.
Emma Watson stood before people and said they should shut up and get along, albeit with more decorum, elegance and intelligence. Zoey Quinn fought for the right things, even did some things right, but lost sight of who she was in a sea of horny teenage males and the step-ladder to success.
My personal view on the whole thing? Don’t listen to anyone but my Mum. Get on. Get up, go out, and get on. I follow no belief systems, I am aligned to no units of societal measurement, I am just one slightly-fucked-up-wishing-he-was-more-tortured-in-his-soul-than-he-actually-is writer. And that is a big enough deal to follow as it is, let alone having to staple labels into my own flesh.
So, on tumblr, the heart and soul of the angry repost without evidence or sense. I ask you all. I ask every one of you who has said something for the cause without doing something for the cause. For all of you who think the cause is more important than the people it stands for. I ask you. Fuck it all. Give your friend a hug. And enjoy Netflix. Eat icecream. Go to work. Whatever. Just do it with the intention of being kind and just to those in your general vicinity. If everyone just helped one person a day, we’d all be helped. Don’t get lost in your white knight armour.
Also buy my book.
You should be reading this at around Midnight, 15th Sept, if I can get tumblrs ridiculously vague scheduling system to work. I’m thinking me just posting this at midnight will be better…. I apparently don’t do technology. Who knew?
If you are reading this, then, you may be a closet fan of a new writer on the scene by the name of Nathan. T. Dean. Or perhaps you’re a friend. Or someone I bumped into once at a party. Whoever you may be, oh fine soul, I am here to implore you to buy my first novella, Spectral Fathoms:
— Hannah Agutter (@hannahagutter)September 12, 2014
Spectral Fathoms Review by Nathan T. Dean http://t.co/yoc0TjJxBU— Jennifer Clark (@jennynicole33)August 31, 2014
— Myles Curwen (@MylesCurwen)September 11, 2014
That lass up there is Hannah Agutter, who is essentially my agent, producer, creative confidante, name it. She has been working so tirelessly to try and get people to find and buy my book. If you don’t buy it for me, buy it for her, to make all that hardwork worth more than while. Is that a phrase?
What she has been working so hard to show-off is my little, esoteric novella about Jacob Altringham, who one day has to attend his grandmother’s funeral, and - like most lonely arseholes - he focusses more of his attentions on a sexy lady also attending. And then his life is irrevocably changed, because in books, when a man meets a woman, that woman changes everything.
There is also a drug that makes you telepathic, but that comes later.
It is strange. I imagined, when I released my first book, I would be hiding out in a bar somewhere, nursing something with a high percentage and a kick, and worrying sick that people would be reading my words. They’d be building opinions, ideas, having thoughts about me and my text, and that is just horrifying. What if they think something nasty, or, in a way (worse), nice?!
This is all entirely true, I am doing that, but just not in a bar, but in my Mum’s living room, with a cup of coffee, loading an episode of Twin Peaks (what else) and being texted how I missing Fresher’s week.
It seems an age ago now - and also yesterday - that I first stepped foot onto fresher soil, experiencing drinking too much and being a tiny fish in a slightly larger pond. And here I am writing about my first publication. I’ve never felt more like the writer people already tell me I am.
I’m living the dream, but the dream never turned out to be what I expected. I should have known that. How can a dream be what you expect?
So, whilst I am coffee-addled and enjoying the tranquillity of the countryside, here are some thankyous:
Mum, Dad, Phil: You should know why I thank you.
Mrs. Wright/Mrs. King: I’ll always see you as that, teachers prompting every iota of imagination. I did it. Wrote that book you told everyone I had in me.
Bradders: Thank you for getting that child that would become me to those exams. Thank you for telling me that I should be believing in me first and foremost.
Hannah: You’re just my agent now, expect more hard work. Thanks for this.
Myles: You made a whole album in less than a month dude. And it is beautiful. All the shit we’ve made together, we need to be stars man!
Chuck Wendig: Don’t even really know you, but if I hadn’t read your blog posts and if you had tweeted me links on the fly, I wouldn’t have self-published. So thanks.
Clarke, Mant and the gang: You’re in the book, on the first page, as a big thanks, but thanks again. We’re going to make cool things.
Right, here goes, no more time-wasting. No more reminiscing. No more memory-bogging and wandering aimlessly in verbiage. I have to do it now. I have to give you the link and let you buy it. Here we are then… 3…2….1…. shit:
BUY SPECTRAL FATHOMS FROM:
My CreateSpace link. I get more royalties, but delivery seems slow. Swings and roundabouts.
From Amazon.co.uk. Slightly less royalties, speedy delivery if in the UK. No free ebook on purchase of paperback, I think?
From Amazon.com. Same as above, but speedy for your Americanos. Also, I think only amazon.com has the feature where you get the ebook free if you buy the paperback. So, pick your website lightly.
I have a problem. I relate too much of how I feel, of how I judge the world, to other individuals.
People often remark, Nathan, they say, Nathan - well, they rarely begin with my name, that only happens in movies when you are introducing a character - how do you act like you don’t care what other people think of you? How do you not let the other opinions and beliefs of others effect how you behave and think? And I reply with a simple lesson:
"I don’t. What are you saying? I have never done that. What other people think of me is all I ever think about!"
I’m just too stubborn. If someone tells me I should be a certain way, I will try my damndest not to do that just to annoy that person. But that does not mean those thoughts won’t bother me for the rest of the day; for the rest of time I will consider what that person told me about myself. I will take that persons opinion about my behaviour, actions, thoughts to my grave.
So, recently, I had begun to panic extensively about my life choices. Writer. BK employee. Living alone.Two parts IT Crowd Roy to Three Parts Coffee-Addicted Bukowski. Something is horribly wrong with my life. Exaggeration, overload.
I finally came to a conclusion why I was worrying too much about my life. My life is pretty stable, good, decent even. Some kinks to iron out, but generally I am living a fairly OK writerly lifestyle. So why was I panicking so much?
Because I care too much about what other people think.
And most people are TERRIFIED of mayonnaise.
I don’t mind mayo. I’d annoy Vincent Vega and Jules Winfield with how I have it with my chips, but generally it is a good condiment that tastes nice.
But for the rest of the human population, mayonnaise is a deathtrap, a pit of unending pain, a white glutinous lovecraftian horror. Mayo is the end of days. Mayo is where your children go to die in the night-time.
When serving people in BK, occasionally people will react so heavily to learning their favourite meals contain mayonnaise I feel like I am being preached at about the apocalypse. The customer looks fit to break down, shaking ready to sob and fall to their knees, as they plead with me to relinquish the mayonnaise demon from their chicken royale sandwich. Whilst I get the drink, prepare the fries, place the shit toy in the kids meal bag, I am constantly reminded of how these meals cannot, will not, and never shall ever contain mayonnaise. If they do, well, the thought alone of the events that would transpire should not be uttered to mere mortal moi. To mention the catastrophic doom of eating mayonnaise by surprise would be in itself also a horror.
The longer I live on this planet, the more I feel this maladjusted me is far more balanced and stable than your average human bean. Your normal human is angry when their burger contains a gherkin. Your average human is annoyed when Eastenders is on later than usual. I get scared of not being able to pay my taxes; normal human, scared of sauce choices. Me: scared I’ll die without importance. Stable human: scared the Primark sale is over.
People tell me that I don’t understand the world, that I need to sort out my priorities, that I need to learn x number of skills so I can survive in this humble little reality we call home-heaven-hell-prison. And yet I cannot help but think that those people who have adapted to this bizarre kafkaesque maelstrom of “please press 5 to contact your local retailers” and political dementia are the strangest beasts ever to walk humble earth. I wake up, laugh maniacally at how nothing really fits together, get it off my chest, and enjoy coffee, tumblring, bacon, book releases and BoJack Horseman episodes, and everyone else, well, they just sob at the queues at the cinema, the choices of colours for their new Ferrari, and the mayonnaise on their fries.
So, let me tell you this, however bad you think your life is going - if tomorrow, you’re thinking of cashing it all in, not passing Go this time, thank you for all the fish but I’m good for anemones now - you may be infinitely more stable than anyone with a decent job, a decent wage, a decent job, family, ideologies and L.I.F.E.
On the other hand if you read this and find mayo to be a demon from the hell beyond then I would consider rehab.
I was trying to send this out before I went to work, but as you can see from the time stamp, that failed.
Whilst at work I was chatting with a new guy, and we were talking about why we were working where we do. And I said it helped pay for my flat, and that was all that mattered now. He said, “it is nice to know you can put your ego aside for the right thing, it takes dignity to do that.” Best thing I heard all day.
So, I want to pass that on to everyone: staying true to what you want and need, even if it means people will shake their heads patronising at you, takes dignity.
I just thought everyone needed to know that because that made my fucking day.
BOOK REVIEW, BOOK REVIEW, BOOK REVIEW.
I am going to be embarking on a 12-8 shift at work today (which I know isn’t that bad for some people, but allow me to be shocked seeing as before now I basically wrote, did university and worked in a theatre company and bookshop), and have a rare moment to enjoy a coffee before I wander down the road to the ever so lovely Burger King. There I will buss’ tables, serve angry customers who don’t understand the complexities of a BBQ sauce pot and mop floors with the hearty gusto of a sailor on a pirate ship deck.
My point bringing this up is about failure and success. I don’t have long to write, so I hope I can finish and post this before I have to leave for work. It is sunny outside at least, and the coffee is warm, so my morning is pleasant enough. I even have chocolate biscuits. But back to success, failure and being mediocre in the middle.
I serve a vast array of people every day, but I cannot help but see so many who do not seem happy with their state of affairs. They grumble when the Whopper they ordered is too late. Men in suits complain down telephones that ‘Jackie should have filed it’, even though suited man has no idea what ‘it’ is. Families sigh and roll their eyes at the twelve kids they have to control, when they didn’t even want to get married back in high school.
And then I look at myself, as I smile at the customers, laugh when I overspill the smoothie mixture, etc. I look at myself through this hazy mirror and wonder how successful I have been.
I was a grand student at college and secondary school, which allowed me to study what I wished to at university. I have had two short films made, worked in London with a Transmedia firm, and will soon be self-publishing my first novel. I pay for my own flat, my own corner of the universe, and have the opportunity to write pretty much when I please. But I work for Burger King. I am lacky n.o. 209. This is not to say they treat me unfairly, on the contrary, B.K do not fall into enormous stereotypes of what it is like to work for fast food (as other friends in a similar position of mine say is very lucky). I am lucky in that I have all this opportunity.To write, to be treated well at work, and to earn (just) enough to pay for my own place.
So why can’t I shake off the feeling I am failing? I set high expectations for myself, because I am a honest believer of why the fuck not. I am Nathan Dean, self-loather and narcissist, I deserve the best. And then I don’t reach it. Bret Easton Ellis had published his first book two years before my age current. Max Landis is filling corners of Hollywood with his own special brand of madness. And I sit in a little box in Lincoln, hoping someone might read something I have written, and then give me enough money from that to be able to live off it.
Other people don’t seem to do this, panic over failure. And that worries me. They’ll say “I wish I had XYZ” and then continue doing “ABC”. I serve a hundred people just like me, who earn thousands time more than me, or nothing at all. I serve people just like me, but who also squandered a gift or cast aside a choice. How, then, do you continue being happy when the dream feels out of reach?
I’ll be brutally honest, I haven’t a fucking clue. I wish I did. I wish I could lay on my back in the shadows and then, in a shining epiphany, I’d go “IT WAS PIZZA.” “It was pizza all along that helps you remain happy when the dreams down the bottom of a well.”
But I am clambering down that well, and I just need a helping hand back out with my dream clutched tight to my chest, like a baby kitten that a kangaroo told me to go save. “Yes, Skippy, that’s right, I did follow my dream.” (Cue cheesiest movie of all time).
I wish it was all that simple, when it came to believing in yourself. Eating pizza and watching cute movies. I wish it was that easy.
You wake up, and on the doorstep is a little white envelope. Printed on the cover, in tiny black letters, is your name. Your real one. Not something you use from time to time. In full: your name. you open the envelope and you smile, not showing anyone the contents. Because it tells you how to be happy.
Looking down the street, you see someone has put one envelope on everyones doorstep. And everyone opens them. Some people smile. Others laugh. One person cries.
There we have it. You now know how to be happy.
It’s a fleeting feeling though. You learn, from the little gorgeous hand-written note, that happiness will happen in small bursts. It is not something you carry at all times. Life wouldn’t be worth living if it was only one emotion at a time.
You go and work in shit job #1 for a bit, but you smile, and it seems easier. The weight of your failure, which isn’t failure at all, fades. You just serve, clean, whatever, with a clear mind, thinking about the other things in your life you want to fix, solve, play with, evolve.
You scrape together change, go for a drink you can’t afford, come home, and do whatever you do best.
Whatever you do best: something that brilliant shouldn’t be done all the time. People who juggle don’t juggle all the time.
A few years later you try and find the envelope again, as you can’t remember what was inside. You can’t find it.
You don’t mind.
I discovered recently I have a collection of 411 people following me on the twitter place, and I decided that with that number growing in such a manner, I should actually check out which lovely bods and boddesses find my whimsy, pseudo-bon-vivanting and other such writerly shenanigans interesting.
Amongst the 411 followers - which gives this self-doubting narcissist the ego-building potential to think himself a god of some sort, or at least a Mayan priest with all those pretty feathers and things - I have anything from music producers, to university students; from enterprise schemes to European artist collectives. And then smattered amongst that: plays that have been and gone; of course the more expected arrival of identity-less cybergirls and literary quote-collecting robots. I think the final block are the most abundant. And though I understand my twitter presence may be supported by a pile of faux femme fatales with pretty hipster headings and quotes in the bios, I can’t help but think that my other followers are just as lacking in identity as well.
And this is nothing to do with their work, or their creative ethic, but rather down to a kind of promotional issue. These people are certainly not as empty & buzzing on positronic sexlines as the cyberladies of the twittersphere, but they add a plethora of followers to their own ranks to get their name, as they say, out there. (There. That big place where people live with, possibly, money, money that can be renamed funding, and funding means you can do things in the big out there and be part of out there with other out-there-ers. We all love Out There.) But once these people get their names out there, they fail to continue forging those connections, and I’ll add – so I don’t seem too arrogant – that I am also afflicted by this same inability to continue communicating…
When I get a spare moment I want to collate all my followers/followees into category groups, so I can network more effectively with all these lovely creatives following me. I mean, amongst my followers are experimental drug treatment twitters for Crohns, because I once mentioned my condition in a tweet. Hundreds (exaggerated…) of doctors emerged from the cyber-woodwork to tell me that they too could cure my bellyache. But they never followed through. Just a quick follow and a grinning profile picture. And to be honest, I don’t want that, so your follow was a little underappreciated I am afraid.
What these people, and myself, need to do is keep in chatterings with these bluebird 140 gossip accounts. Twitter is quite an informal playground for this kind of thing, and so when you next follow a group of people, try and have a bit of chat with them. Because the more important factor in the mass number of followers isn’t that a higher number creates greater exposure, but rather that a larger number is a greater potential for further endeavour. Imagine: somewhere there is a magic room filled with the people you want to see you. You hand business cards to all of them, and then steal the champagne and run away into the night. Yes, those people now have you in their mind for a bit, but it’ll fade when the next 200 business card-follow metaphors come in and steal your half-dim limelight. Rather, whilst in that magic room of everything you need, you stay and chat for a bit, and they say “I need a new advert” or “I really wish my skateboarding had a theme song” or “my grandmother skydives and needs social media for her cloud-earth adventuring”… more opportunity!
Instead of just “follow me buy my book”, why not “what are you up to?” And I don’t mean just professionally speaking, why not as human beings? Shock and horror! People get so embroiled in the business of businessing their business, they forget why they did it initially. I went on twitter to moan and highlight my life out of that narcissism I mentioned above, and then to promote my work. I’m at a stage now where I need to promote far harder: I have a flat, I have a novel, I have a web series in the works, and I can no longer presume my work is only “good for my CV”. I can’t just sit and wait for the writing to take off, and to do that I need to promote, and to do that I need to be myself chatting with other people being themselves. In an industry built on not being yourself. Quite the paradox to fight through…
We live in an era where connecting people is as easy as sending an aggravating hashtag to your favourite celebrity. Where a private message can link to a Vine to an Instagrammed image of an artist you once met by accident on the tube… The power of social media should make promoting oneself such an easy dream, and yet time and time again people just hit follow, expect a self-entitled followback, and can’t even be arsed to tell people what they do. I’m a band. I’m a writer. Good for you. But what does that mean to you, and what does that mean to me? Also do you want to grab a drink next time I’m in town, because I like friends as well as “connections”.
Getting the balance between me as novelist and me as person is difficult. Chuck Wendig seemed to oppose branding oneself because if you need to give yourself a brand you must sure as hell be uninteresting. You are a fully fledged person who does things; surely that should be interesting enough. And I know you are interesting, you just need to let me in. You need to be more than just an @ address and a link to your bandcamp/society6/whateverthehell.
So, I’ll start.
Hello everyone! (waits for you to reply like a gang of schoolchildren), I am Nathan Dean. I am releasing my book on Sept 15th – Spectral Fathoms – and I’d love you to buy it, because it means I can afford more coffee, which is my fuel. Speaking of coffee, let’s all meet up and have one next chance we get. @CreativeLincoln is a good ass twitter for meeting up, but if you’re free, gimme a bell, I love coffee.
See… that wasn’t too hard. Bit creepy, but not too hard.
Moaning about how your craft - your special brand of creativity - is harder than other peoples is a pet peeve of mine. To compare ones art to another, to me, seems ludicrous, as even though many forms of media all share similar habits in how they relate to their audience, the practices, conventions, ideologies, theories and logics behind them are so esoteric to the field that comparisons are pointless, dull and often incorrect.
In this regard I will now moan about how hard it is being a writer.
The issue with being a writer is that other peoples skills have a very physical presence. Let us say, for the purposes of this, you are a car mechanic. If you happen to read this, and you are a car mechanic, wonderful. Coincidence has yet again created something fun and happy. If you are not a car mechanic, do not worry, you’ll still be able to keep up. Being a mechanic, you have to get down and dirty, and your client can see you working hard on the engine. You pick up tools. You cover yourself in muck. You hang rude calenders on your walls (I am not averse to stereotyping). This means people can see you working: can actively appreciate your craft.
The same for editors, sound designers and the like. As an actor your very craft is an act. Audio editors will have software, which seems specific and complex to someone untrained in that subject. But, what does a writer have?
At the end of the day - if we don’t go into a socio-political argument about literacy rates in 1st world countries - we can assume everyone can write. And if everyone can write, then everyone is a writer? No.
Myself and my fellow writerly friends have studied this craft. We know Todorovian narrative theory, we have character progression sheets aplenty, we have studied plot arcs and how to balance a fine ending with an epilogue. We know our craft. The issue comes when you try and prove your knowledge when every other bastard with a quill is also writing something!
I am not the sort of a person who wants to prevent people writing. I support fanfiction culture; I believe everyone has the potential to be anything they dream to be. But this requires time and effort. Being a famous author isn’t about luck, but about creating lucky situations, and that requires hard graft and a lot of skill. Yes, every one can pick up a typewriter and be the next William Burroughs, but that doesn’t mean I am going to immediately treat you in the same vein as other writers/scriptitians/dramaturges and other made up words. I will support. I will educate where I can. Help your work blossom. But you need to have a certain mindset and education (bought or self-taught) in the subject that has merit and decency.
I feel I am moving away from the point at hand; everyone is a writer but not a Writer, a capitalisation arrogant yet necessary. Anyone can paint but they are not Painters. Anyone can fiddle with an engine but are not Mechanics. Mario is a plumber, not a Plumber.
This, naturally, creates an elitism. And elitism creates pockets of creativity without communication, which furthermore prevents the cross-pollination of ideas between different fields. We reach a strange balance between giving creative arts a hierarchy so we can accurately progress media whilst celebrating particularly fantastic creators in the form, whilst simultaneously making the arts open for every one, as they should be. Joe Bloggs and Marie de Artiste Fontingue should be on the same playing field, sharing the same cakes and biscuits of delicious creativity. But this is yet to be the case. Or rather, it is happening, but in an underground sense.
I want this to change.
Myself, Hannah Agutter and Sam Clarke have begun to try and change this. Myself and Sam put on a play, which is outside our comfort zone of filmed media. Hannah Agutter produces across different kinds of media, from photography to film. And all of us have set up #creativepeople.
#Creativepeople is to make networking across different fields friendly, open and inviting. So many times networking events can seem off-putting, either with the format (like a strange speed dating run with business cards and not enough wine) or in payment (why do people pay to meet people?). #Creativepeople is literally putting people in a room, buying a few drinks and chatting about the arts and media as a whole. Our last events had 1st year Media Production Students meeting design companies; it had film societies meeting theatre actors. And our next one - on June 12th - will have an even larger range of people, from different backgrounds and creative fields. (The word creative, unrelatedly, is now my Matrix Name… you know, if you say a word enough times and it ceases to have meaning, that is your name when you leave the Matrix).
My vision is to have the next Steve Jobs sat beside a guy who made an indie game for his friends and no one else, and not necessarily having the former help the latter become the next Ubisoft, but just have ideas shared across the boundaries we set ourselves. At this stage, before an endgame that ludicrously far away, I just want people to meet and work together that wouldn’t have done so before. What happens when a game designer works with two actors and a web developer? What happens when a film society gets a photography company to advertise them, with soundscapists on the front line? What happens when a film maker meets a fashion designer? How will we know until we start talking?
The problem comes that media like to fight. Each format wants to overwhelm the other with jargon and cleverness unnecessary. Each one wants to prove to the others they are the best, or the most complex, or the hardest to work for. This needs to change. No more comparisons. No more competition. Just collaboration, the most powerful tool we possess.
Oh god, this is hippie culture and the arts combining. I really am a beatnik…
But what is the hardest form of media? None of them? All of them. I think any occupation where you have to constantly prove you are still good at the thing you are doing is hard. I suppose that is every job in the universe. As humans we have created such a hypermasculine industry structure, of waving our penises about in the hopes someone will see how big and creative they are. We can’t just sit down for coffee, and charm one another. There is no room for courting in the arts, and this saddens me, for where else should courting live if not there?
So, let us put our penises away. Let us put on our hipster shades and take our Apple Macs to a Costa Coffee. Let us buy notepads from Paper Chase and use fountain pens to take bullet points. And let us be #creativepeople together!
It is I, the blog neglecter! I return with the possibility of words you wish to read which may or may not hold meaning of a vaguely agreeable value.
I am pleased to announce that I am now a writer for Fantasy Faction. This is a big deal for me, as this is the first place I have sent work to that is published outside of a certain catchment area, so to speak. Up until this point I had written obscure words for esoteric companies, and worked with colleagues and friends locally, but this is me, writing words I want to write, on topics I love, for the sake of it, for other people. It is essentially an extension on this ‘ere blog, but with less fucking swearing and a more professional attitude (ha, yeah right, writers with a professional attitude. That’s like artists with concentration that lasts over 4 seconds).
I will be writing articles on various topics involving the worlds and themes of Science Fiction and Fantasy. I have already talked about world-building, and have a few other ideas up my sleeve, but I also need your help. If you have fantasy or science fiction short story, please send them my way. Preferably ones already up online, even if that means just some little backwater blog you run. I want to help support new writers and - god I hate the term, but lets do it… - amateur writers by reviewing their work alongside the bigwigs. So if you have a story you don’t mind being reviewed to a wider audience with a heavy dash of constructive criticism, please send them my way. Just send me an email to email@example.com, with an subject heading making it clear it is a short story to review, with a link to where you host it online.
I only want to review stories currently online, as this is just far simpler for me to send people to. Being able to just attach a URL to a review so people can see the work for themselves, is far easier than other methods. So no manuscripts please, just website addresses to blogs, websites and literary caves. I can’t wait to read what you have. If any short stories contain a pineapple, I will link it to this blog regardless of quality.
But yes. I’ve been neglecting this place again. I can see on the corners of punctuation marks little cobwebs by the wordspiders, and under the floorboards of the first posts are the skeletons of previous worries and woes. I need to have a tidy up.
The reason why I haven’t been here is quite a simple one. I am a pseudo-bohemian writer living out of a friends house, working for a fast food restaurant to support my crazy choice to be a wordsmith. Let me tell you, I am living the rogue writer dream, and that dream is a little bit rough around the edges. It smells funny and keeps going on nights out without my consent. I had reached a point where I could no longer function on the drips and drabs of odd projects. Being funded on projects can only help so far, and I needed something to help me. I originally didn’t want to tell anyone online I work for Burger King, on the tills getting people the food they want, because I felt this would taint my professional patter. I felt that people wouldn’t treat me as a respectable writer in my field, if they knew I supported myself with other avenues of work. So I retreated, felt sorry for myself, went home, saw Mum, got a bollocking-of-love that I am in fact doing well, gave said folks huge hugs, and returned feeling invigorated. (Note for life: if feeling lost and confused, see your Mum).
I learnt I shouldn’t be ashamed just because I am not the next Iain. M. Gaiman-Novik yet, but should be more grateful of what I do have. A family willing to support me even when I’m being a complete twatbasket about my current affairs. Friends coping with fitful outbursts of self-deprecation whilst also giving me a home to live in. A job that isn’t as bad as the media makes out, may be small pay but it lets me live a life worth living, and my colleagues are the funniest people I know. Writing work with new creatives I wish I had known for so much longer. And a future that seems, not necessarily bright yet, but definitely flickering with new born sunlight. My Stepdad told me “if there isn’t a light at the end of the tunnel, go down there and turn the bugger on yourself.” Doing that. Now. Finally. [I think].
Life is scary. Just, a heads up. If you’re in college or secondary school reading this, hopefully on your phone at the back of a class like the rebels you won’t be allowed to be later, remember that phrase. Life is scary. It can be horrid. But that doesn’t mean stop. It will always be that. From now, all the fears of friendship groups and passing exams, to owning your first house to your deathbed, you will be scared. Ride it like a wave. And if people say “you can be whatever you want to be”, hit them. The phrase is too positive to be worked with and adapted into your life. You can strive to be anything, but its hard, and not everyone will make it. Not everyone climbs Everest. But it’s worth the effort… and some people do. Some do win. You might be that guy. How will you ever know if you don’t pick up your gear and start a-climbin’? Hmm?
So this is it.
Send me your short stories, start your ascent. I may be just the first few pebbles at the bottom of the mountain but who knows, I might help you get a handhold to the next step. Send them to me.
Also check out all these people below. Writers and dramaturges and producers and marketers and lovely folks you need to follow on twitter because why the fuck not:
Chris Mudd, Hannah Agutter, Charlotte Greenley, Brett Knights, Samuel Mant, Alex Capper, Samuel. J. Clarke, Jim Booth, Dominic Bright, Myles Curwen, Hannah Eaton. There are probably more, check my follow list.
Those people above, and a fuck tonne more, are the people that help me get out of bed in the morning. They are the people who remind me to keep writing, keep selling burgers and to keep climbing the mountain.
I am writer, here me roar… or scribble.
40 followers. 39 posts. Time to make it equal, mother trucking doodah dayers.
The sun is setting already because I firstly got out of bed too late again, and secondly because I live in a country that doesn’t understand time or weather. I drink a coffee, but not a special brand as I usually adore, and it tastes of Tesco Savings. It reminds me that I want my own house, with a fine selection of coffees, a cafetiere, a cat called Mazzapax - or Eonada - and a plentiful supply of typewriter reels, canvas’ and internet allowance.
Recently, I sat for around four hours in a Burger King. This seems like very strange behaviour, because who on Earth would want to do that? But I had a fine reason. Firstly, I was eating there, which is a more appropriate reason, but I didn’t order 4 hours worth of nommage. Instead, rather, I was discussing friends, love, hates, worries and distempers with a lovely friend of mine who I wish I had met sooner. She and my other friend share a student house, which also has a spare room, and they allow me to sofa surf for limited periods whilst I claw my way into a respectable position in society: i.e. job hunting. And they are unbelievably supportive, the pair of them, but for those 4 hours I had the chance to discuss many things about me: what I like, what I dislike, and get my head straight.
I will be honest, I have been finding days difficult recently. To sound arrogant, I am not used to failure. I am fine with not doing my best, but very rarely do I put my mind to something and not get some form of reward. This leads me to self-deprecate and is a terrible side-effect of being told I was a gifted-and-talented student who would achieve everything. I learn now this wasn’t just lovely support, but also a great responsibility, which made me incorrectly assume I had to be great at everything or I was worthless. I am not worthless, as I have been told numerously by friends (even if I never listen to them), but when over 40 job applications come back as empty you can’t help but think that the duvet is a finer place than the outside world.
Now, I tell you this for another reason other than to get some form of psychic e-sympathy. I tell you this because it is "bullshit."
Bullshit, ladies and gentlemen, is everywhere.
Under every crevice, between every wall, lost in deodorant cans, pill boxes, coffee mugs, spiritual shops, business ventures and even sleeping soundly under your pillow each night. Yes, fellows, bullshit is everywhere.
I find it hard to get out of bed in the morning because I think I am worthless, when I know I am not, and even if I am due to a great cosmic joke it shouldn’t fucking bother me. It isn’t something to be worried about. Whether you mean something to the universe or not isn’t really important in the grand scheme of things.
I chatted to this friend in Burger King for 4 hours about what worried us - for me it was that tall women won’t find me attractive, I don’t have a job and that being a beatnik writer isn’t what it made itself out to be - and with her she told me of friends of friends troubles, past issues, et cetera, ad infinitum. And it was a fine conversation, because it put things in perspective.
I am trying my best to get a job. I care for my friends. I’m good at what I do. I just can’t handle bullshit.
I can’t handle people coming up to me and saying that I need to settle down, in that passive way where someone says their lovely little life with taxes and jobs and mortgages and engagements makes them happy, as they pop another anti-depressant. I can’t handle people telling me how they didn’t enjoy a night out clubbing because X and Y didn’t happen. I can’t handle people saying they have to say mean things because its a coping mechanism that X is ill or Y is bullying them. I can’t handle the fact that me standing up and saying, “I find it hard each day because I’m lonely” is also bullshit. Alongside twitter celebrities moaning that Doctor Who is a travesty of modern society, I am equally as bullshitty by saying “ooo, I wish someone liked me”.
Everyone is saying their problems are the worst, and 99% of those problems are not problems. They are offensive, they are frustrating, they are even saddening, but they are not problems. They are life.
People - including me - need to grow a pair.
I have issues and, I will call them problems due to a lack of the correct vocabulary for such things (there isn’t a word in English for “this that bothers me a bit too much which is kinda like a problem but really it isn’t it is just a thing I wish would fuck off or sort itself out”; German probably does have a word for it, or Japanese), and I need to just sort them. Slowly. Quickly. Angrily. Normally. Things need doing.
So I am going to do them. And I send this as a message to everyone else with… things… that bother them. That need doing.
My message is simple. Moan. Groan. Drink too much. Drink too little. Write angsty poetry as you listen to Panic! At the Disco. Whatever makes you feel better. But remember that after doing that, you need to get on with life. Don’t wallow in the bullshit. The bullshit ain’t going nowhere, so laugh at it, point and giggle at it like your an uneducated primary school student who has met his first ginger. Throw it out of a window and laugh manically as it scrambles on the concrete. Smother it with a pillow as you weep for tomorrow to be filled with more whiskey and boobs. Do these things and do other things. Nicer things. After worrying about your money and your loves and the people on twitter with too much time on their hands (I don’t count, shattup!), go for a drink, hug someone, hand out CVs, do your taxes, pet a cat. Something.
I would like you to reread the above paragraph in a tone of voice slowly and gradually rising in pitch til it is so high in exasperation you can’t understand me. Go on. Do it.
I hope everyone in the world is happy today, or at least giggling to themselves because you have no other emotion left to feel. I hope you have a day where you too can laugh for the sake of laughing, because you might as well go psychotic one day. I hope that the day after that you find the courage in yourself to ignore the bullshit and love yourself, because even if your a baby-eating gay-killing mass murdering kitten-crusher, you should love yourself as you do it. At the end of the day, it is all you have.
Love yourself, find the world as ridiculous and angry as it is, and then buy yourself some posh coffee and laugh at how un-self-aware Planet Earth truly is, and that includes you.
AFTER MOCKING YOU SENSELESS, YOU SHOULD GIVE ME MONEY. I made an EP of electronic dumb music to piss off HoneyCombLaserVision. You should download it or something: